I haven’t been on here for a while - but if you have a funny blog please like this. I’m having an awful night and just need a good laugh.

I just think that calling anyone derogatory names is pretty lame.

You wouldn’t want someone negatively labeling you for circumstances in your life that you may not have been able to control, or that other people don’t understand. Let her live her life without adding hate and judgment into it. ❤️

I don’t know what set this “hurting is flirting” wave off, but I have hated that phrase since I was little.

I had a kid named Anthony in my middle school who would harass me and make loosely veiled threats towards me, and started rumors about me that would make me come home and cry every day for weeks until I gained up enough courage to tell my counselor who said “ he probably just likes you” which made me feel so much shame. I was invalidated, my feelings were disregarded, and my trust in teachers went out the window.

It took me almost 3 months, a whole 1/3 of my year to get a solution. It took me raising my voice having to say “ I don’t feel safe coming to this damn school, and I’ve been mistreated daily by my classmates. What the hell do I have to do to get someone to take me seriously?”

It was a nightmare, but for me that was also almost 13 years ago.

I hope that the teachers at school offer you relief and solution. His behavior isn’t acceptable, and your ability to get a good education shouldn’t be hindered by being bullied. Letting him off the hook by calling it a crush is setting a tone that it’s okay to treat people badly so long as you “like” them…

Come off anonymous if you feel comfortable, or just come back when this gets taken care of and let me know you’re okay ❤️

All rejection hurts, and I’m sorry you feel devastated. 😕

But, you’ve shared a friendship with this individual for 4 years, someone you call your BEST friend, I don’t think they have the heart capability to mean “ not my type” with negative connotation.

He may just be having a hard time conveying that he likes the platonic relationship you’ve established, and he doesn’t see that taking off romantically.

It’s difficult for most people to not fall for their best friends at some point because these are individuals that have your best interest at heart, share similar hobbies/ personality traits, and I’d somebody you spend a lot of time with and invest energy in.

Don’t think you’ve lost him, just talk to him and solidify that yes, he is what you look for in a person, but you’re glad that he’s your friend person first and foremost; and you hope to continue that, even if the “more” isn’t reciprocated.

Sending you love and healing thoughts ❤️

If I see someone who is an “awful” person “ have it all” ; I remind myself that if they can attain stability and friendship, that there are jobs and people of equal or greater merit waiting in my future, too.

Use it as determination.

Break down barriers both internal and physical, push buttons, be heard, and don’t pay attention to someone else’s timeline/ fortune.

I’ve found that just as curiosity kills the cat;
Comparison kills the person.

Stay proud, continue dreaming, and be you the whole way. 💕

I generally stay away from the overtly “holier than thou” type, because they make me itch.

But if you’re trying to maintain a friendship with her, you need to communicate that you don’t appreciate that no matter what you do/ do not do - you are judged for it harshly. If she tries to say you’re too sensitive or she was kidding - tell her you don’t take it as a joke, and if she respected you she’d just stop.

If after that conversation happens, she continues her tirade of bullying - drop her ass like a hot potato. Maybe one day when she’s all alone with no one to turn to, she’ll realize she needs to change

I’m equally disgusted by people who allow themselves to hate others due to appearance.

Bye 😘

I read a quote a couple years back that said “ I never knew my inner strength existed, until I had to forgive someone who wasn’t sorry.”

You will meet obstacles in your life. Whether physically tasking, or even an old friend who’s overstayed their welcome..

But there will be people in your life who unapologetically make you feel empty.
It’s sometimes harder to let go of your invested time than the person themselves.

Friends will either grow and learn lessons with you, or they will become the lesson -

It’s okay to appreciate the “not forevers”, and move on.

The elevator going up is ready for you. ❤️

Up to a certain point you can allow yourself to say “ this is someone I love and care for, and I will help them”, but you have to ask yourself if this is someone who loves and cares for you back. You can’t support bad habits and her inability to be responsible for herself.

You can’t pour from an empty cup.

The next time she comes to you for money, ask how it’s being used. Tell her that you need to first be paid back all the money you’ve invested this far; because she’s taking way too much and getting too comfortable with you always being there.

You are still an incredible friend for as much as you’ve done, and I’m sorry you feel used.
I hope things turn around soon. ❤️

I want to cry.
I’m sorry your efforts and saving and thoughtfulness was shot down, and I’m sorry your girlfriend is acting like an ungrateful brat.

20 years old and can’t see how hard her guy works and knows he doesn’t ever have extra, and when he did, chose to give all of his extra to give her something special for her birthday.

Oh my god. Please don’t feel shitty. You did a great thing.

Come off anon and talk to me

I’d like to say I have some huge checklist, but to be honest, I just look for someone who fuels my excitement, kind to others, is stable in life ( has goals and ambitions they’re working towards), has a sense of humor and a genuine want for growth and adventure 😊