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Anonymous: I've been together with my bf jonny for a year now. It's a serious relationship, we know each others family and we live together, even have a dog together. But sometimes jonny gets a bit emotionally abusive. He's never laid a hand on me that I didn't wait laid on me. But sometimes he attacks me verbally and it hurts much, much worse than any punch he could throw. I told my om I don't think this is going to last and she said I was overreacting because they are ' just words'. What do you think?
I think any abuse within a relationship is super unacceptable. I am also a person who knows how destructive someone’s words can be. " Just words" have meaning behind them, and sometimes when bad enough, stick with you forever. and even on the good days you hold out to have with him, you’re probably wondering ” How can you act like you didn’t say what you said, how can you smile and pretend like we’re put together and happy. How do you think your words have no consequence. How can you love me, yet have so much hate inside for me that you often tear me down”
It makes the fun times less fun. and unfortunately sometimes, when abusers know you can tolerate what they dish out, they ” step up their game ” they will bend you until you break and sometimes the verbal abuse is only the starting point to a run that you might not last to the finish line.
No matter how serious this relationship is, even if your families know each other, even if you live together, you don’t need to justify leaving to anyone. You have the right to protect yourself, you have the right to say ” I don’t deserve to be treated like this, disrespected like this, and no matter how many times you apologize to me, it will not erase the damage you’ve done.”
Don’t wait until it get’s worse, you don’t have to live a life with him that makes you feel sad and small, that makes you need to hope for a good day.
You’re in control of yourself, and I’d say there are other living arrangements and men in the world, that will make you feel a lot more comfortable and happy than you are now.
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